Love or Fiction?
Rejected is a love unfulfilled, because we did not live it as and as much as we would like or not at all.
It is a result of the Myth we make in our mind about what we would live with this person or in a situation.
We are tormented by one WHY… and one IF…
If we were together, I would… If he was in my life, I would be…
Why can't we be together? Why not live it?
We create a story in our mind and feel regret for not claiming what we desire, which reminds us more strongly of our fears and insecurities.
But what makes us stick?
- What I failed to do Taste it. I am curious and create a fantasy scenario involving a mystery.
- Failure strikes Selfishness my. Why wouldn't he want to? Am I not good enough? I experience rejection and intense insecurity.
- Idealize the situation or the person. My imagination runs wild, I have high expectations and my mind creates the best fairy tale.
- I still have Hopes that something might happen. I defend myself from experiencing Rejection. I don't live in the now and in reality so I'm not free.
So what can I do?
- Cultivate Perception: What does the other person need to do to win me over and keep me engaged? If he takes me for granted, the attraction diminishes.
- I focus on the HERE and NOW. I realize what I feel and for what reasons. I focus on the truth and not my fantasy.
- I'm taking ACTION!! Going out, flirting, meeting people, enjoying the moments... I'm living!! I make my life the way I like it and it fills me up!
Live your Passion, but in conditions of reciprocity!
Don't forget that many times...
We fall in love with Love itself and not its subject!
