The good kid is desperate for love, acceptance and recognition. He neglects his own needs and dreams to satisfy others. It is constantly unsatisfied. He does not express his desires and does not show his true self. He never wants to displease anyone, he doesn't say No, he doesn't set limits and he doesn't ask for anything. It is always willing, helpful and lets others take advantage of it. So it ends up not existing!

The fear of criticism and rejection prevails, as well as the feeling of guilt, either towards others or towards oneself. In addition, he has a sense of responsibility for the lives and feelings of others.

Excessive kindness does not produce the desired results, does not facilitate relationships, does not improve the quality of life and does not guarantee unconditional acceptance.