Love or Fiction?

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Rejected is a love unfulfilled, because we did not live it as and as much as we would like or not at all.

It is a result of the Myth we make in our mind about what we would live with this person or in a situation.

We are tormented by one WHY… and one IF

If we were together, I would… If he was in my life, I would be…

Why can't we be together? Why not live it?

We create a story in our mind and feel regret for not claiming what we desire, which reminds us more strongly of our fears and insecurities.

But what makes us stick?

  • What I failed to do Taste it. I am curious and create a fantasy scenario involving a mystery.
  • Failure strikes Selfishness my. Why wouldn't he want to? Am I not good enough? I experience rejection and intense insecurity.
  • Idealize the situation or the person. My imagination runs wild, I have high expectations and my mind creates the best fairy tale.
  • I still have Hopes that something might happen. I defend myself from experiencing Rejection. I don't live in the now and in reality so I'm not free.
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So what can I do?

  • Cultivate Perception: What does the other person need to do to win me over and keep me engaged? If he takes me for granted, the attraction diminishes.
  • I focus on the HERE and NOW. I realize what I feel and for what reasons. I focus on the truth and not my fantasy.
  • I'm taking ACTION!! Going out, flirting, meeting people, enjoying the moments... I'm living!! I make my life the way I like it and it fills me up!
love, Σαραγιώτου Γεωργία/ Saragiotou Georgia/ life coaching

Live your Passion, but in conditions of reciprocity!

Don't forget that many times... 

We fall in love with Love itself and not its subject!

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