From Cowardice to Strength

There are times when you want to get out of a situation.
To run away, because you are "drowning". Get away from everyone and everything. But, you don't make that decision! You don't want to hurt the person you are with by telling him that he is "trapping" you with his behavior. So, you "force" him with the indifference and the distance you keep, to realize it on his own and leave. He seems to understand, but doesn't do anything until you tell him to make his own decision. And then, he makes the decision to break up!
A decision that redeems you, as you are now free and you don't have to pretend that you are fine.
You are relieved for good! Your body recovers. He no longer "feels" weak and tired.
Your mood improves dramatically and you feel ready to conquer the whole world. You set goals and achieve them. You don't have this person above you, telling you that he wants to help you achieve your goals, while at the same time, he "spoils" your psychology in every way.
You are very happy with how things turned out!
You won your physical and mental health. You left a toxic situation that had been plaguing you for a long time.
You think that if you had told him to break up, he would have convinced you to give your relationship a chance. Whereas now, at least, with the indifference and distance you kept towards him, he got the message and broke up with you himself. So, you "got rid" of this person once and for all!
At the same time, he is responsible for the decision to separate and cannot blame you for anything.
The truth is that if you broke up with him, his ego would not be able to stand it and he would do everything for you to be together again. While, now, he left you, you left, without begging him to be together and calmed down. Regardless, he still can't understand why you didn't try to convince him.
The point, of course, is that you have to make decisions yourself! Don't wait for the other person to decide, because you automatically leave the reins of your existence to him, who, based on the circumstances, can handle you as he wishes. You have to look at the situation from many sides, seeing the positives and negatives and where the scales are leaning, so that you can make the best decision for you. Have the courage and strength to say "stop"!
After all, when one circle closes, another opens!
Have you opened it yet?
Arthrography: Alexia Styliani Kanakari

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