From friends, now lovers

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Love at "second" sight. THE friendship turns into love...

All relationships change over time. Some cease to exist, others are preserved as they are, while others metamorphose into something else.  A purely friendly relationship of years, for example, turns into a love relationship. It does not change from one moment to another, but over time. Simply, in a moment, it is expressed by both sides. No, with words, but with a look, a touch, a hug, a kiss. After all, words are unnecessary in these cases. The eyes and the heart "speak" by themselves. You feel it. So, you don't think about it. Simply, you live it! You live it, without guilt or regret. You don't have to wonder how it happened. It just happened! It happened, because you couldn't help it. It was beyond your strength! And basically, you didn't want to avoid it. You wanted to live it and let go. Live it to the fullest while it lasts. After all, you deserved it! You deserved to have a person next to you, who is at the same time, your friend, your partner, your love, your love. Because, it's not just romantic attraction, which arose completely by accident, but something deeper. Something, which was created little by little, both "building" at the same time on solid foundations. So, yes, the romantic desire "awakened" in a flash, through everything you went through together, but the selfless love you have was cultivated gradually and is still, basically, being cultivated. This never stops!

Love never stops...

Your relationship is based on non-negotiable values, such as respect, admiration, support, love, dignity. That's why it lasts over time, after all. It's not just a coincidence! You work on it.

Perhaps, of course, you wonder if the romantic desire has been there for a long time, you just suppressed your feeling, so as not to lose each other. But, there's no point in thinking about it. After all, if this happened, it happened unrecognized, on a subconscious level.

What is important is that the feeling is never wrong, as well as that the intuition never "betrays" you, when you have "set" an ear to "hear" it and you have not "put" it on "mute".

So, leave the "how", the "since when" and related things and heat up! Today, not tomorrow! Show your intentions. Maybe he likes you too! 

Why deprive yourself of happiness?

Arthrography: Alexia Styliani Kanakari

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