When loneliness meets loneliness!

You chose to stay alone consciously and after much thought! You decided to emotionally unhook yourself from people who were holding you back with their mentality and lifestyle! Which made you especially happy, as you felt in full control of your emotions! Along the way, however, you realized that you were not as free as you thought! You were alienated both from others and from yourself! You fell into the trap of loneliness. You thought that this way you would ensure your mental health, but, finally, your psychology plummeted! You indulged in ephemeral relationships, a fact that made you feel unbearably lonely!

Then, you made the decision:
- To write a letter to you! A letter, in which you apologized to yourself, for making him unhappy with the decisions you made, but above all, with the decisions you didn't make!
- To figuratively and literally hug yourself and promise him that you will not lower your standards again so that you are not alone!
- Make a plan for what you want to achieve in the next 10 years! Plan your strategy and focus on your vision!
- Set daily goals and "catch" them! Reward yourself!
- Invest in your personal development, through studies, seminars and activities!
- Write on a daily basis, things you are grateful for!
- Communicate with people every day and keep in touch, only with those that suit you!

The path of loneliness you chose has a price, just like every choice you make! The way you manage it will benefit or harm you in the long run! You have to find the balance, the golden ratio, as we say! Until you find her, however, you will be faced with the dilemma of whether you should retreat and be with people who don't "work" for you, or whether you should stay true to your original decision! The answer, however, is one! You have to endure the pain of being alone than being with the wrong people by your side, as the first pain will be temporary, while the second, forever! You can always get out of the trap of loneliness.
It's not bad to want to be alone... but what's bad is to feel lonely!
And what's even worse is feeling lonely, while there are people around you!
Columnist: Alexia Styliani Kanakari
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