When your inner child “intrudes” on your thinking…

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It makes me sad to see you like this! I can't believe that a winner like you is ready to "tear down" what he "built" for years with so much effort and toil. I don't want to believe that you are so weak and vulnerable, that because of one disappointment, you will "disintegrate" everything in your life. You've been through worse and you didn't give up. You "clenched" your teeth, took a deep breath and "fought" until the end! And now, you've given up on everything! Why exactly? Because two people found themselves and challenged you?

First of all, what are they to you and why does their opinion matter so much?

Ok, I accept that those others who criticize you are important, but are you so easily willing to "sacrifice" your dream on the altar of others' opinion? Probably, you were looking for a "good" reason to retire from your professional field! You were tired and because you didn't want to take the responsibility on yourself, you shifted it.

Ok, respect! I will not judge you, neither I, nor anyone!

Or now that I think about it, I'll judge you, because you dismissed me so easily, at the first opportunity! You betrayed me so irreparably, while you know how I stood by you all these years! I stood by you all these moments, when everything seemed in vain, I pushed you to continue strongly, without bowing your head!

And now you're tired? I do not accept it! And you shouldn't have accepted it for yourself either! You degrade him in this way and you don't deserve it. Just because you were told that you will "bend" and that you are not mentally strong enough to establish yourself in this area, you had to persevere! You shouldn't even have taken it seriously!

Let everyone "play" with your psychology! People with less achievements than you trying to manipulate you! Disprove them! A little ego, can't you have? Just so you don't text, do you have an ego? Here, in difficult times, I want you! Show your fist! You have strategic and lateral thinking. You have skills. You have proven it time and time again! Take advantage of them and stop whining. It doesn't suit you, especially if you think about what you've been through and what you've achieved.

So get together and get started! Your power is you, no one else!

Arthrography: Alexia Styliani Kanakari

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