Should I forgive him?
You couldn't forgive him! He had hurt you beyond repair. The "damage" he caused you was "irreparable". The "fairy tale" he "sold" to you, "cheap" and the word, "ungratefulness", "engraved" in you, every time you thought of him.
You felt he didn't deserve forgiveness! You felt that automatically, in this way, you would release him from the responsibility he has for the harm he caused you and you would "burden" yourself with an additional, guilt. The guilt, that you are to blame for everything!
You couldn't stand this! It wasn't a matter of selfishness! I am telling you the truth! You could not accept that once again, you were not justified with your choice!
It hurt to see yourself sobbing and proving weak. A self that had overcome a lot and had repeatedly proven its strength. You could not accept that you had not acquired "immunity" after so many difficulties!
Until, at some point, you decided to forgive him!
It was one way! Only in this way, your soul would calm down! Only in this way, would she be freed from the "unnecessary" burden and take the reins of her existence from her tyrant.
It was difficult! Take time! What can we say, lies?
But you had your family and him by your side Georgia Saragiotou's Personal Development Guide, "Make it happen!". They were two "strong" props, without which you will not recover so easily!
You got back on your feet and made that difficult decision!
Forgive him!
You realized that only if you forgive someone, your soul calms down. And it calms down, not so much because you forgive the other, but because you forgive yourself! You "fight" with this foundation! To accept that he made a wrong choice, which "cost" him psychologically and made him "resign" for a while! You are trying to understand and accept yourself! Accept his weaknesses! Weaknesses, which you thought he had overcome, when in fact, they are still there, inside him and tormenting him.
Because simply, we have to learn to manage some of our weaknesses in order to be functional in our daily lives when we cannot overcome them!
It's not simple! For sure! But life is tough and you have to show mental toughness if you want to survive!
Everything is an "equation"! Will you do it or cry your "fate"?
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