When you have dignity as a life attitude!

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Time was passing and with him and your pain for him!

Every day, your anger subsided. You were beginning to accept that you cannot be with this man. You were evolving and he remained stagnant! He wanted to "bring you down" to his standards so he wouldn't feel inadequate. You wanted to support him, but in vain! He wouldn't let you! All he knew how to do was judge your choices and compare them to his own. So, you made the decision to break up with him! Your decision "hurt" you, but there was no other way! Your mental health was and is everything to you! When you told him that you wanted a divorce, a huge burden was "gone" from you. 

You felt redeemed! You felt like you respected yourself. 

For so long, you compromised to avoid upsetting him, as every time you pointed something out to him, he turned on you! He "put" the blame on you, he pretended to forgive you, while you were not to blame, and at every opportunity, he "hit" you for doing you a favor by not holding a grudge against you! The definition of a manipulative person! He wanted to control you, because of his insecurity, so he wouldn't "lose" you! But it "suffocated" you, and so, inevitably, it "lost" you!

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You closed this circle with dignity!

You went, met him in person, broke the news and told him the exact reasons why you had to part ways. You stood your ground! You were honest with yourself and this man! You didn't leave him with question marks and with the question. You respected the time you were together.

I admit you!

You have a clear conscience! A clear conscience, which naturally results from your reckoning, but also from your unconditional forgiveness towards this person. A forgiveness, which implies a definitive removal from your life and joy in your soul.

You're late, but you made the decision!

You are strong! You love yourself after all and that's what makes me happy! You see, some such experiences bring you face to face with your love for the other, but also with your love for yourself! If you choose your love for the other, a love that "hurts", however, yourself, you will be a victim!

If you prefer, on the other hand, your love for yourself, you will be the heroine of your life!

Arthrography: Alexia Styliani Kanakari

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