Labels: noose around the neck!
These labels…
It was the signs! Those signs that wouldn't let you go further.
Which made you stay the same and most importantly, complain about them. Labels that others had put on you, but also labels that you had put on yourself. Labels, which while they didn't suit you and didn't express you, they had become one with you. You believed them firmly that you didn't leave room to shoot them down. You knew they weren't, but some coincidences confirmed them and your belief that you are these labels brought about other confirmations.
Affirmations, which hit you day after day, because they brought you face to face with your inadequacies. Your supposed inadequacies, because you were fine, you had simply indulged in beliefs that did not serve you. That did not advance your plans.
How much do your labels affect you?
You dwelled on some coincidences and made them your reality. A reality from which you could not escape. You could, but something was holding you back.
It was that everything is in vain and pre-planned by a higher power, the universe, God, that no matter what you did, it didn't take place.
So, you became a pawn and did not renounce that role. He didn't take you, it was your destiny, you said over and over again. You had to accept it and normalize it in your mind to make it more bearable. Consider it natural and next and stay there.
But, you couldn't stand it and said 'no'. You said 'no' to the waiting you had been putting yourself through. You said a resounding yes to yourself. In your dreams, in your ambitions.
It was a difficult decision, but you were suffocated by this remorse.
The question was would you say 'yes' again or would you get complacent?
Because 'yes' we must say it to ourselves every day, making the right decisions for our lives. We must be consistent in the promises we make to ourselves. Not to deviate, so that we gain self-confidence and later, self-esteem. That's the only way it works!
Are you really willing to say 'yes' to yourself every day or have you decided to be stubborn? The decision is purely yours!
But before you decide, think about it!
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