You are divorced and yet...
You keep thinking about him, missing him, looking at your photos, reminiscing about your moments...
to feel that something was left in the middle...
to wait, to hope, to wish for him to come back…
to send you a message… to call you… to come to you…
to show you that he is still here… that he loves you…. that nothing is over... that it was all a bad dream...
**What makes you stuck??**
Your fantasy!!
The more you miss and distance yourself from the real situation and your real moments, the more ideal you create them in your mind... You forget the bad, focus on the beautiful moments and imagine them in such a way that even then they didn't really exist... They are a utopia... a your mind game!
What can you do to get unstuck??
- You're feeling sorry for yourself! Stand your ground! It's normal to hurt, to be sad, to cry, to be disappointed... It takes time to accept the new situation, to get used to it without him.
- Remember... Everything passes!! Love didn't last, but neither will pain last forever.
- Evolve! Develop yourself! Learn new things, start new activities, put in your life people who inspire you. Live as you like!
- Respect what you had! Don't charge it as a failure, but think of it as it was... it was a complete experience... it gave you everything it had to give and it was complete. The circle is closed... not left open, not even in the middle!
- Decide how you want to overcome him!
- Get him out of your life... Stop following him!
- Take your time and don't rush into something else to fill the gap! All you'll do is probably push yourself and the new story won't thrive. Find out with yourself, process what you learned, what you would like to do differently, how you will use this experience to achieve the next healthy and successful relationship with duration and true feelings.
A breakup is a loss... it takes time for acceptance to come...
Don't forget... Your man will come and stay!! Not everyone stays and not everyone is suited to have this role!
The person who will always be there for you is YOURSELF…
So love you!! You deserve it!
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