Ah this relationship… the one so important!!!
What do children need?
Certainly many things, but I will refer to the most essential ones!
What are these;; Let's see…
- Love!!
Unconditional Love… No replacement… Sometimes we mention the phrase “Do this to make me love you” and it's so wrong… What are the kids learning?? Reciprocal love. How wrong results this will have in the course of his life!
- Acceptance
I respect his skills and talents. I'm not trying to fulfill my own dreams as a parent through my child. I accept it as it is, I learn it… I discover it. But at the same time, I also teach him the values that I consider important.
- Contact
How important effective communication based on active listening is! What does this require? To close my mouth, open my ears and understand what he is saying, what he is feeling. I don't listen to answer but to understand!
I also teach him to talk about his feelings, so that he gains emotional intelligence and learns to express himself and also to recognize what he feels at every moment and in every situation.
- Limits
Αγαπώ και Αποδέχομαι δε σημαίνει πως αφήνω το παιδί ανεξέλεγκτο να κάνει ό,τι θέλει. Βάζω τα όριά μου και καθορίζω τα όριά του σε κάθε πλαίσιο ώστε να μάθει αργότερα να βάζει κι αυτό τα δικά του όρια στους άλλους. Βαρυσήμαντο είναι να έχει Αυτοπειθαρχία, η οποία καλλιεργείται μέσα απ’ την πειθαρχεία που μαθαίνει από μικρό σε κάθε περιβάλλον που βρίσκεται!!
- Self confidence
I strengthen my child's Self-Confidence by rewarding him for what he achieves through effort and personal work. I focus on the positive so that he is motivated to keep trying!
- Sorry
Δεν διστάζω να ζητήσω Συγγνώμη για τα λάθη μου ώστε μέσα απ’ το παράδειγμά μου να κατανοήσει το παιδί πότε χρησιμοποιούμε αυτή τη λέξη και την αξία της. Προφανώς, χωρίς αλλαγή συμπεριφοράς είναι μια κούφια λέξη. Ρίχνω λοιπόν το προσωπείο του τέλειου γονιού! Κανείς δεν είναι τέλειος και ούτε χρειάζεται να είναι.
- Quality time
I am present! The child wants quality time with you, to be there with all your senses. Sitting next to him while doing something else, e.g. with your cell phone, it's definitely not common time.
Remember !!
The child acts as a mirror.
Θα κάνει αυτό που βλέπει πως κάνεις κι όχι αυτό που του λες να κάνει!
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